Be transparent
Go to your client and tell them their competitor approached you.
Tell them that you turned the competitor down in favour of maintaining your relationship with them your established client.
You will get kudos and trust from your client
This will turn into money at some further point.
Ask if you can use them as a reference outside their industry.
Get them engaged and on your side.
There are no secrets on the web.
Your client will hear one day.
Who do you want them to hear from? manage this situation now.
As for the second newcomer - avoid them like the plague - they have no scruples or principles.
They do not care if they put you in conflict of interest.
They will squeeze you if you work on the side secretly.
And they will abandon you like a magpie for another piece of shinier tinsel at any time - and then they will talk.
Always go for the trust, transparency and win/win.
In the 3 way you will ultimately be the loser.
We encounter potential clients like these a lot.
They do not care if you lose.
They dangle money as bait.
But they want a very large pound of flesh in the end greater than what they pay.
AND we do not enjoy the relationship at all so can hardly wait to drop them as they can never be satisfied.
Once you get a smell for this kind of client you learn to overquote by large numbers.
Then they will not pass you on to their buddies.
These fish travel in shoals.
I call them bottom-feeders.
S
Edited by harpsound, 27 January 2010 - 11:37 PM.