Too bad on the Googlebot stats not matching. Look for other bots that visited on those dates.
As to the traffic stuff...
It varies 1dmf, depending upon the market and how much base traffic there is out there for it. Some of the more popular and competitive markets are waaaaay up there and consistently get 500k per month or more. One that gets over 1.5M uniques per month on average. Some of my more niche'y markets get 50-80k and I'm happy to have it.
Funny part is I make as much or more real money from the smaller markets as I do from the really big and competitive ones, once you factor in all of the costs, the time it takes to run them, etc. Sure I may have to have 2-5 smaller niche sites to equal the income from one broader market site. But it's a lot
easier to get to the point of profitability more quickly with smaller niches too. That's why I always suggest people take on the smaller markets first, then fan out to take on larger, more competitive markets. Smaller markets inherently contain less risk, are easier to conquer and are easier to run month after month on auto-pilot. So in the smaller markets it's simply easier to have multiple income streams, which protects me from a market fading out or me doing something stupid.
To me it always breaks down as: Would I rather have 1 site that brings in $25k per month. Or 10 sites that average $5k each. For myself I'll always choose the latter. I know from experience it takes as much work to run the one as it does to run the ten, but that the 10 limits my exposure and risk. One market and one site can take a dump at any moment. The odds of 10 markets and 10 sites having the bottom fall out at the same moment in time is basically nil. And if you did the math you'd see I'm making twice as much moolah from the same work with 10 little sites that take about the same effort as 1 larger market site.
As to the link begging, no need to bother asking. You know me, I only link to sites that are going to fit users of my sites. And I don't have any sites that would be appropriate for yours at the moment. If I ever do get a site that fits one of yours, you won't have to ask. You see I link to several people who have posted here over the years, simply because it fits and I know they have quality sites and do things the right way. They've neither asked, nor probably know, that I link to them. But I do.