> if you are ever in the midlands of South Carolina
That's another thing-- I want to be able to travel, because my list just keeps getting longer. (S. Carolina wasn't on the list but you guys just keep talking about it...) :roll: I'll never make it to all the places I have to go! I just found cousins in Ireland that insist I have to visit them, and I'm not eligible for vacation for another six months. Oof.
Anyhow. From what i hear, starting your own business is not a recipe for time off whenever you want it (there was a thread on Webmasterworld by a guy asking how to leave his ecommerce site for his first vacation of more than a day in 5 years!), but the idea of it remains.
>paying 1/4 my monthly salary for a cruddy 2br apt walk up
Well... I suppose the amount you pay is proportional. It was a bit of a shocker, though, to learn that a mansion in Buffalo with a $70,000 kitchen (Viking stove, SubZero fridge) and a beautiful property went for less than the 2 bedroom, one-story wreck my boyfriend's sister and her husband bought in San Diego and have been breaking their backs to make livable.
> We even had to wear shoes

I wear slippers at work most days. I don't get the point of dressing up for work anyway-- nobody sees me except my coworkers, who don't care.
Sigh.